Dating lazy men
This might take some extra effort to achieve and you might want to hire a photo pro for the necessary effect. If you make it look like you are trying too hard, you come across as desperate.
And when women see a man who is desperate they run. Sentences like these scream insecurity and make you look lame. And really, why would a woman give you a try when you come across as holier than the rest of the pack? They don’t want someone who is still struggling to make up his mind.
You’ve been on this earth for longer, remember, and you should have learnt by now that you deserve someone who is more impressed by the size of your heart than your wallet.
Furthermore, don't presume that you have to “take care” of her emotionally.
Similarly, if you're getting attached and she's planning on moving to Japan for six months, you should probably have a super-fun and not-at-all-awkward conversation about “where you see this going”.
Do dress well Someone once told me a useful rule when it comes shopping for your age.
Older men, it seems to me, are like gold dust on the dating scene right now.
Say enough about yourself but still leave enough room for more to be discovered. Give them something to chew on and draw them in slowly. A good way to create a cool profile is to think of celebrities women go gaga about and borrow a thing or 2 from them.
These days the idea of young women dating older – often significantly older - men barely raises an eyebrow. A long stints in an asylum for the criminally insane? But just because she hasn’t shared a similar experience, don't feel that she wouldn't relate to your life or your issues; open up and you never know what wisdom she could offer.